I read case law for a living. I continually decipher which cases hold precedential value, share similar facts and ultimately, which cases are of significance. The law is shaped by significant cases, landmark cases, or cases that are relevant in rendering a judicial opinion for a particular issue. I pour over verbose briefs written by highly capable and intellectual attorneys constantly honing in on what is and is not needed to render a decision. I filter out the white noise and focus on things of importance.
The lessons I have learned in the professional practice of law have applicability to my personal life. Of significance is my family and friends. Kind words, thoughtful gestures and meaningful keepsakes are the hallmark of my relationships. I think we all do a great disservice to our future relationships when we fail to see what truly is of significance in our lives.
In the spirit of all that is significant in our lives it is my intent to share simple ideas, good things, and genuine thoughts about how we can show affection for all the people who come and go in our lives and have an impact.
I almost titled this blog "We can't all afford granite countertops!" Why? Because society has this skewed materialistic view that we must buy the latest, greatest, biggest, best version of everything. There is an economic hierarchy and we simply all can't have everything all the time. Or, maybe we can, but it is often at the expense of ruining relationships, sabotaging credit and inducing financial frailty. Embrace your financial landscape and navigate it with integrity.
Get back to what is of significance. We cannot all give lavish gifts and we especially cannot afford to give the gift of luxury to compensate for our relational shortcomings. Give smartly, give quality, and give some thought to how you present a token of affection. Stop running to the closest store at the 11th hour for another $20.00 birthday gift off the shelf. If your budget only permits the giving of a $10.00 gift than find the most exquisite, meaningful, or timeless gift that money permits. Give with a purpose to those of significance and they will cherish not only the gift but the generosity and thoughtfulness of the gift-giver.